as a clinical psycho-sexologist (MSc.) I offer you my support in exploring, experiencing, accepting and expressing your sexuality.
pleasure please
Let's talk about sex baby, let's talk about you..
Let's talk about sex baby, let's talk about you..
Are you more of a people pleaser or selfish?
Answer considering sex.
Do you preform or feel?
Do you believe in love?
if you are a people pleaser and you feel guilty when being selfish;
if you tend to preform for your partner and often stop feeling yourself;
and if you are not sure what love actually means to you -
then worry no more, you are just where you need to be: here, ready to take the next step in your journey of lust and love
For whom?
I work with women and queers who have had bad sexual experiences or difficult romantic relationships & want to change this. The people pleasers, where the inner voice just seems so much quieter than anything or anyone else.
When desire is almost a long lost memory;
arousal and sexual orientation is confusing;
sex is avoided or a chore.
When orgasm comes sometimes when masturbating,
yet rarely when having partnered sex.
Even pleasure can be tainted by confusion:
What actually feels good for me? What do I desire and like?
Does this make you freeze?
Our goal is to feel connected with yourself, others, the world, and the universe.
Pleasure is interesting, because its subjective.
You, and only you decide what feels pleasurable for you.
This means: you have power over your experience of pleasure.
sure.
It becomes more interesting, and more complex, when we experience pleasure with someone else.
How to feel myself AND connect with the other?
When was the last time you deeply felt pleasure?
What I Do
help you feel normal about sex. you are normal. whatever your inexperience, whatever your non existing fantasies. wherever you are right now - it’s okay, it’s right where you need to be.
help you reconnect with yourself and others.
make your inner voice be heard & listened to.
ask questions. propose challenges.
deep dive into your perceptions, feelings and sensations.
help you understand the why, the pattern, accept it, to then change it.
acknowledge the shame that has kept you quiet.
help you allow yourself to enjoy and appreciate your body and all the sensations it can provide you with.
make you realise that your mind is your friend, not your enemy.
want and enjoy having sex.
& beyond being sexual - reconnecting with what you want in life, in love.
listen with the least possible judgement - I am super curious, but bear with me, I am human, I make mistakes and I look forward to you pointing them out to me. your feelings and perceptions matter.
Psychological &
Sexological Coaching
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Hello lovely, what you want to change?
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